Are you held back by fear, family or finances?
I call those the BIG F's.
And, my friend, here is what I think you should say to them. "Fine."
Not, "Eff you," like you thought I might suggest.
Just, "fine you great big pile of Fs. You are what you are and I am going to be what I am going to be, whether you like it or not! I have a few Fs of my own, you know!
I am going to be Fit, I am going to be Fat, I am going to be Fabulous, Flirtatious, Famous! I am going to be Fun, Free, and I am going to figure out how to make it past you Fs that keep me down! I am on Fire for life and I am going to be just Fine as I get my Next!
I am going to move from this day to the next. I am going to touch and taste and smell and learn and I am going to LOVE everything that life has to give me! I am going to get my NEXT!"
That's what I think you should say, or something like it, choose your words, but get a little attitude and get your Next, by damn!
They're creepy and their kooky, they may even be a little spooky but the fact of the matter is your friends and family have your best interests at heart. Especially if you like to stay right there beside them, never leaving the nest, never rocking the boat, not questioning the status quo. In most cases family and friends want to protect you. They also want to keep you close. Here are my favorite family tips:
There are as many tips, worries, and pitfalls around finances as there are hours in the day. My best advice is to relax. If you have the best idea in the world, the money will flow. If you lose all of your money, you will find more. It is all going to be okay. Schedule a coaching call.